When I See Grandma by Debra Tidball
Ill. by Leigh Hedstrom. Wombat Books, 2014. ISBN 9781921632594.
(Age: 5+) Recommended. Alzheimer's. Death. Grandparents. In this
heart wrenching but uplifting story, a young girl visits her Grandma
in her nursing home with her family. While her young brother plays
antics and makes the nurses and residents laugh, she brightens
Grandma's dreams by reminiscing with her. Important events in
Grandma's life are celebrated. Grandma loved singing so the young
girl sings her a song for her to dance on. She loves to brush her
hair and so did Grandma, so she brushes her hair, 'for her dreams to
dazzle on'.
Using the joyful illustrations by Leigh Hedstrom, the reader finds
out more about Grandma's life as a young girl when she was in the
war, got married, had children and then grandchildren. Each double
page spread has a picture of what is happening in the nursing home
and on the opposite side is a loving picture of grandma enjoying
life and then finally the family kissing her goodbye and she floats
off into the light to meet her husband.
This is a very moving book dealing in a most thoughtful way events
that many young children would be going through. It offers children
a way of coping with a beloved grandparent's slide into oblivion and
a way to rejoice a full and happy life. Proceeds from the sale of
this book will be donated to the Hazel Hawke Alzheimer's Research
and Care Fund.
Pat Pledger