Tilly's big problem by Rose Stanley
Ill. by Lisa Allen. Starfish Bay Publishing, 2014. ISBN
9780994100306
(Age:(for children under 8). Recommended. Themes: Problems;
Counselling; Social and emotional development; Problem Solving; Peer
support. Tilly has a problem so big that she is unable to deal with
it on her own. Her close friend, Ned, comes up with a plan to share
the problem with a 'big person', and they list the likely candidates
and come up with a test to see who is the most suitable to share the
details of the Problem. At no stage in this book do we find out what
the 'Big Problem' might be, but the fact that it is something that
cannot be solved without some intervention is the essence of the
problem.
There is an element of humour in the manner in which the children
problem-solve to select the favoured counsellor, and the illustrator
has a suitable quirky, naive style. This masks what might be a
serious issue for some children, 'Who do I tell when I have a
problem that overwhelms me?' This book may be used in discussions
about who would be suitable to entrust with issues.
This is definitely a book to encourage students to share with school
counsellors. It does not minimise children's issues, nor suggest
that they might be easily solved.
Carolyn Hull